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What Happens When the Season Changes?

  • August 13, 2020

Welcome. It’s refreshing and awful at once, to read the questions and concerns of our audience here At Home, to discover how resilient and kind and optimistic we are, even as a sense of foreboding envelops some, bringing a kind of lethargic anxiety, an abiding loneliness, a worry about what happens when the season changes, when the air turns cold.

When the weather warmed up, life got a little better because I could visit with friends outdoors on our patio or porch. Once it gets cold, we’ll be isolated again. I’m wondering about creative ways to socialize outside in fall and winter?

I once thought I couldn’t live in the Pacific Northwest for all the rain, couldn’t survive in North Dakota with its brutal winters, couldn’t manage Vermont with all its snow. Then I spent time in those places and discovered the secret to outdoor socializing under difficult conditions: Dress differently.

We’re all so accustomed to our lives amid HVAC that we forget that it wasn’t always like this, our office and home lives humming along at 74 degrees, four seasons a year. It’s cold out? Make like the people in all those period thrillers we’re streaming on our screens: wear sweaters and scarves and big hats and woolen socks and boots and get out into the world just as if we were all enrolled in forest kindergartens. It’s a kind of joy, to walk in the cold and rain and snow with a friend, a shared adventure.

How do I find a healthy amount of alone time while quarantined in an apartment with a partner I love and our pup (who I also love)?

See above, though as a solo act. You don’t need to become a marathoner. But taking long walks or runs, riding your bike for many more miles than usual, looking at the world while thinking or listening to music or podcasts or audiobooks (try Hilary Mantel’s “Wolf Hall” trilogy) is a wonderful way to achieve a kind of solitary centeredness away from your partner and dog. Plus, it’s good for you.

More ideas for living an agreeable life at home and near it appear below. Please write and tell us what else you’d like to know about: athome@nytimes.com. And we’ll try to be helpful to you. It’s why we are here.


Article source: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/12/at-home/newsletter.html

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